Wednesday 17 February 2016

[Warning]Avoiding insecure attachment people =help you have a happier life



The most common insecure attachment cause is shitty parenting.So we can
reasoning which kind of groups with very high concentrate of insecure attachment people.Insecure attachment people almost =low parental investment result.Rather to say ,the "Normality" we believe is result of good education+parenting+health.Insecure attachment is the nefarious (human) nature without human interruption ,or abuse result.Thank the feminism movement for working mothers ,their %in population still raising.







Here is my observation of high insecure attachment concentrate communities :







Furry fandom:Actually they are feral children,they raise by the animals on the TV screen.The furry fandom always emphasize those hairy thing make them comfortable.
 



MATCH .I am not saying all furry fans are insecure attachment ,but if you see some people who want have sex with those cartoon characters ,I am sure they are .I believe the cartoon industry design furry for this kind of kids.







A community people often name calling each others :The brain of insecure attachment people are different with secure attachment people,secure attachment can feeling pleasure by meeting people ,but insecure attachment people can't /feel less pleasure.So they are more offensive,if a group with all of this kind of people ................







Atheist community :The feeling of we feel god is the feeling of we feel our parents.And the internet Atheist community always name calling.







LGBT community:First you have to look at the review of this book:http://www.amazon.com/The-Sissy-Boy-Syndrome-Homosexuality/dp/0300036965

Psychiatrist Green presents the findings of his 15-year study of two groups of boys, one "feminine" and the other conventionally "masculine" in attitude and behavior. Three-fourths of the first group reported being homosexual or bisexual when interviewed in adolescence or young adulthood, while only a single member of the second group reported such orientation. Green recognizes the dangers implicit in a " `recipe' approach to preparing a developmental model of homosexual orientation" and offers instead a complex and multi-factored theory drawing on his clinical experience and statistical analysis. He is not concerned with "preventing" the development of homosexuality but in reducing the anxiety of those frequently stigmatized. Highly recommended for academic and large public libraries. James Michael MacLeod, Richmond, Va.This number is the number they admitted that they are homosexual only.

This number is the number they admitted that they are homosexual only.

So ,gay is predictable.After nefarious parents notice their kids have "trans"behavior ,they cut down their parental investment immediately.(Although some of them turn out are not gay ,but trans)And parents usually would hiding/surpass these "trans behavior" of their kids because once time people know they have such kind of kids ,the reproduction value of parents are almost = 0.So most of LGBT people are insecure attachment.If the LGBT kid have siblings,it's very obvious that their parents like those non LGBT kids only.


http://www.adherents.com/misc/hsk.html

Technically, 69% of the serial killers in this study were homosexuals (i.e., people who were self-described homosexuals or people who had engaged in homosexual behavior immediately prior to, during, or after committing their murders). The lower statistic of 43% cited above is the proportion who were homosexual among people who molested or raped and then murdered children: 43% of these perpetrators were homosexuals. This lower figure, however, includes people who killed only a single person, and are thus not classified as serial killers. The lower figure is used in the article above (as "over 43%") because it comes from a larger sample size. Presumably, if the sample size were expanded to include a wider range of years, the proportion of serial killers who are homosexuals would remain between the proportion in this study who are serial killers (69% homosexuals versus 31% heterosexuals) and the proportion of all killers in this study (43% homosexual versus 57% heterosexual). Also note the approximately 50% of murders committed by homosexuals reported by Warren with regards to murders of adults. See also: Gemert, F. van, "Chicken kills hawk: gay murders during the eighties in Amsterdam", published in Journal of Homosexuality. 26(4), 149-174 (1994).





(They scare the hell out of me...)Being gay would have a lot of mental problems,and these problems not just because their parents abuse/treat them badly and discrimination,when I was spying in the gay community ,the most serious problem they have is lust :they want to have relationship with straight people ,but straight people don't want relationship with gay people,lead to they said a lot of hate speech towards straight people.








The anime fandom :I seen some anime fans are secure attachment,but people in anime fandom have higher chance to being insecure attachment.Because in the world of anime ,most of characters are far more kind-hearted than actual nefarious ,they can trigger some insecure attachment people liking them desperately since many insecure attachment people have problem to love actual nefarious already.





Man going their own way :This is a celibate community ,but most of members messed up their relationship already.The feature of insecure attachment people is they always mess up their relationship.Here is a quick test:those people who often complaint "been cheated in relationship" ,they are all have extremely nonsupportive families.

Feminist:






Sigh.Need I say more?By the way ,secure attachment people cherish their reproduction chance (because it is the exist reason of secure attachment: reproduction cooperation ),so they don't fight for the female working thing.A lot of secure attachment female complaint they have to work ,but they want to take care babies.




Outward appearance ugly/congenital disability people(not since by accident) :Their parents cut down most of their parental investment when they born.




Countries in warfare:Because secure attachment people are easier to dead in war and large-scale disaster.




Low socioeconomic status people :search (socioeconomic status +attachment ),even the academia did a lot of researches.




Cult:I think I should say new religious here ...I am an anti theist...all religions are cults for me.But secure attachment people are more successfully inherit the religion belief from their parents,so they are unlikely in new religious.




Female often talking the sexual attractiveness of herself /"easy" girls:Precisely,it's anxious attachment female,because sex is the only thing they can use for attract people ,anxious attachment people have instinct to attack the person they have relationship with/want to have relationship with.(like black widow spider)Most murders in relationship did by anxious attachment male,because they even can't use sex for attention whoring.They hate sex robots.The mentally handicapped book "The Pick Up Artist" tell people about how to pick up anxious attachment female ,because they are less choosy,so losers(in reproduction) love to read it.You can't use those "PUA ways"to "pick up" secure attachment girls.


Pick up artists:Don't you notice these losers always grudge for they can't get what they want in relationship and cursing easy girls?The only thing they can do is harass/attack anyone who don't give a damn to their "pick up "ways.





Rapist:Since secure attachment people are easier to get relationships ,some losers (in reproduction)want to rape.




Pedophiles: Many pedos claim they "love"children since children are easier to control ,these losers (in reproduction) can't get a relationship with trust.




Someone who like rape porn: Look at my eyes ,trust me ,they sucks.You can feel it .Most people can feel disgusting from insecure attachment people,just like everyone hate ugly appearance people because they have low reproduction value,everyone dislike mean people because they can't be a good caregiver.But the theory help us to detect them more accurate.




Brony fandom :Actually they are kinda trans people.Said "LGBT" before in this article.But being trans doesn't mean they have to like a cartoon for little girl,I think they are oppressed little girls,because parents love to forbid boys liking ponies/Barbie doll,after they grew up,nothing can stop them anymore.The forbidding from parents and the despise from society make them love ponies more.Many of them are pedophiles.



(Don't search "clop fic"on youtube)BE CAREFUL them.




Attention whores :Everyone were attention whores when they were babies ,some of them received enough attention,lead to secure attachment,they stop to do that .For those didn't get enough attention,the result is autism spectrum(despair) or spiteful attention whoreing.




Day care kids :
They Done already.

http://thoughtcatalog.com/lucy-pinkson/2014/06/why-you-should-never-put-your-kids-in-daycare/

Diaper Fetish:
http://psychclassics.yorku.ca/Harlow/love.htm


During the course of these studies we noticed that the laboratory raised babies showed strong attachment to the cloth pads (folded gauze diapers) which were used to cover the hardware-cloth floors of their cages.

Again,MATCH.




Dramas:Everyone were dramas when they were babies ,some of them received enough adjustment,lead to secure attachment,they stop to do that .For those didn't get enough adjustment...........................




Countries with a lot of wars and mass starvation history :Since attachment type is learnable from parents......





Fanatic feminism ,short statutory maternity leave countries :The land of madness ,psychiatrists love them for career prospects.Create very high % of population of insecure attachment is a super effective way to "divide and rule",but the ruling is too successful lead to they reach it's end.As the fishing technology is so successful ,lead to the end of fishing.Imagine a world with more than 90% population are insecure attachment ...even if elites want to depopulation,I think there is no way going back.Because people are interactive ,to growing a secure attachment person ,you need a parent use least few years of high quality parental investment ,but growing a group of insecure attachment people ,you just need to keeping to promote day care.I notice many some insecure attachment people love to promote difference kinds of abusive method of childbearing.(Of course , John B. Watson)Some of them like mocking full-time mothers nowadays,or some of them love to promote a mindset like"life is enjoy ,let's have fun ,shopping with me,it's okay for you ignore your baby a while,the baby will be safe if you lock them in bedroom with a crib."or"Dear ,you have to get a job so you can move to a better place without gangs ,you don't want your baby grow in a place with gangs ,right?"Because in their heart deeply ,they can't bear to see babies have good care givers even for a second,the thing they can't get and fought  so hard for in their childhood ,some babies just got good care givers from no cost.



Domestic violence abuser :I won't say domestic abuser/ insecure attachment people can't love others.Precisely,I dislike use the word "love".A insecure attachment domestic abuser can beat her/his child and than say "I love my child as I love hit boxing sandbags."People can love purebred dogs and then use them to inbreeding lead to almost all kind of genetic diseases.People just always overrated love,the kind of "love"people always glorify is "care-giving ability".There's a lot of kinds of love (most of them are not decent ),only mention and glorify care-giving ability is not fair.The difference between insecure attachment and secure attachment is insecure attachment people is they don't have (or have less) care-giving ability.Which means they can be a domestic abuser.They have no tolerance for annoying cry babies(actually most secure attachment people admit cry babies are annoying as well,but they have the care-giving ability to handle it),therefore,cry babies trigger them to abuse or neglect.Secure attachment people love to avoid people who don't have care-giving ability.Maybe you would ask:If they know babies are annoying ,and they don't have the ability to take care them ,why they still give a birth?Unconsciously ,they want to reproduction.Consciously ,they want someone to accept them and need them even they are domestic violence assholes,it's a kind of mental needs ,only small children and babies can accept them,so they consume them,this is the major reason of child abuse.They usually use the child to adjust their behavior in society (for example ,get more confidence),because hitting their child can let them feel "being accepted"and "being needed",once time they found their child is usable for this purpose,they become addicted in very high chance.So,child abusers are very unlikely to change their abusive behavior.Maybe they would stop to "beating",after got some warnings or legal punishment,but they will use some inconspicuous ways keeping to abuse.I believe domestic abusive parents do love their victims.Because they can consume them as the boxers love boxing sandbags.Look ,a lot of kinds of love are such ugly.



(I feel Harry Harlow was a drama when he mention "love",he should use the word "care-giving ability".)




People with sexual dysfunction:(here is the research)http://www.nature.com/ijir/journal/v27/n3/full/ijir201433a.html


LOL.Base on my observation ,they are insecure attachment male often going too fast (premature ejaculation) and insecure attachment female taking too long.See?Even the sexual intercourse is a system trigger people to avoid have sex with insecure attachment (or unhealthy)people.People have instinct to dislike have sex with them.Insecure attachment male going too fast is a biological mechanism to avoid insecure attachment female being partner.Because the child would have no care giver in this kind of situation.If he lucky enough (usually not),he would be get a secure attachment female who don't have sexual dysfunction and going too fast as him.Their parental investment is so low ,they even don't waste more physical power in sex to proof they are healthy.I am sure most of nefarious don't know the correlation of insecure attachment and sexual dysfunction and what is insecure attachment.But in their heart deeply ,they despise sexual dysfunction people.




Asexual community :Personal experience , I never seen a secure attachment person in that community.


The "anti parents "community :They are a group of people who abused by their parents...they are horrible...The insecure attachment %in their population is almost 100%.When I explain the attachment theory on there ,most of them accept it (I wondered ,because they always speak hate speech on there),and then they said they want find a secure attachment romantic partner ,but they started to saying hate speech towards secure attachment people,someone on there said want to see secure attachment suffering,they are spiteful with bitter.After I asked "How could you folks get a partner if you can't talking politely and behave well?"And then I got name calling and genital words bombarded.

Conspiracy believers community:Only few of conspiracies are great,but most of members in there just want to vent about their mistrust to human only and then create lame conspiracy theories.

Cluster B:RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!Oh my god!Oh my god!RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!Even therapists don't want to earn $$ from them.

Rare MBTI type:Parents would have more problems to communicate with them usually.S type parents prefer S type kids ,they prefer parental investment the kid who share the same type with themselves.That's why rare types often messed up.

East Asians:When someone say they love a certain human ,they love the oxytocin inside their own brain actually ,when they look at someone ,the "someone " is the trigger of their brain release oxytocin.Autism people don't have oxytocin in their brain,thus they don't give a damn to human.Child abuse is the most common reason to build brains can't release oxytocin.But it's genetic that some race have fewer oxytocin receptors in their brain.Which is east asian.

Here is the research :
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oxytocin_receptor

Workaholic: Insecure attachment people love to use working as a excuse to cover up the fact that they have no care giving ability to their own families.If they work ,they can make sure they get wage,but if they take care children and families,there's nothing clear "payback",they don't do this kind of "gratuitous work".But secure attachment people can feel happy to take care their own children ,this is what mammals should do.














Actually ,secure attachment people can detect their fellows easily ,they always have that kind of irrational faith for human (which help them easier to reproduction),they often laugh mindlessly when they see people as a silly baby,after they detect their fellows ,their oxytocin in group favoritism help them avoid all insecure attachment people and build very stable friendship with same type people,they just want to ignore some people the don't like/not same with them superficially,nor understanding ,and than protect their irrational faith for human (which help them easier to reproduction).That's why you can see some communities with very high %insecure attachment population,because secure attachment people don't join in if they see some insecure attachment people in there.Is it very like the "hypocritical middle class stereotype "?Yes ,they are ,most of middle class people are secure attachment.Even a lot of occupational fraudsters(therapists) claim they know how to change the insecure attachment type to be secure attachment,I can't find any research about change insecure attachment type to be secure attachment,and proofed there's a certain way to change.Personally ,I think it's changeable as the class solidification is changeable.LOL.The academia love to study who are insecure attachment people(marketing?) ,but no research about "the success rate of people who want to change to be secure attachment in long term".Except therapists love to claim it's changeable for $,some anxious attachment people love to believe it's changeable as a cult,therapists don't know the method of the changing,but they know how desperate of those people who went to change,and than therapists consume their desperation for $.I believe in most of therapists heart deeply ,they dislike insecure attachment people as most of population of human dislike them,the way of they express their dislike is they consume them.

I met a crazy bitch ranted to me "attachment theory is about these types are CHANGEABLE!!!!!!!"........................(trollface)

The attachment type is so predictable at 6 months since parental investment is sunk cost,if a parent paid a lot of parental investment in first few years (use most time to take care),the parent would be unlikely to be a abuser to ruin their parental investment result ,because it's sunk cost.But if a parent use nanny or daycare in first few years ,it's a symbol of "no care giving ability "and they don't care the sunk cost.I think the academia always overestimated the %of secure attachment population because the samples often came from those people who care their kids already ,so they join into strange situation test,etc.Those neglectful parents would ignore the test and domestic abusers would avoid it.When people answer questionnaire,they often lie about themselves ,they usually claim a better self they want to be(usually secure attachment),not who they really are.Insecure attachment is a pandemic.I think feminism and schooling lead to the highest % insecure attachment population in documented history ever and trigger something like "behavioral sink".Because if the  insecure attachment population reach higher and higher %,they would start to disturb the "normal reproduction" between secure attachment people.Because insecure attachment people do want to have relationship with them desperately ,but they would mess up anyway.Usually trigger by a little bit argue with their partner,and they can't handle the little bit argument/difference with their partner,their parents programmed they act like that when they don't have memory yet.Secure attachment brain can generate enough pleasant even their have argument and difference with their partners.Before they mess up eventually,they can destroy a lot of things.For example ,murders in relationship.Having relationship with someone can trigger their hatred and aggressiveness towards their care giver ,the care givers are "parents and relationship partners" ,they can't attack the bad care givers (parents)when they were babies ,but they can attack the relationship partner now.



I am not against woman who have a job ,I am against the lust of people want to success in business and family.If someone want to have a baby ,that person have to make sure their partner don't have a job and take care the child,whatever man or woman.But it won't work anyway ,because the female working thing is a chance they can approaching alpha males,it's a bug of human nature.

The retard academia love to glorify secure attachment,but they have their own dark side.I call it "secure attachment style corruption":they have no problem about their parents use power and status to getting privilege for themselves ,and claim it's a kind of rights openly.I heard a secure attachment DJ said :"Unfair?The human life is unfair.How about those Africa's hungry people are hungry just because their parents let them born in there.?:D"in his DJ show.And a secure attachment university student told me :"I know a lot of people get their bank job just because the interpersonal relationships of their parents ,I am okay with it.:D"(Her parents work at bank).Being secure attachment doesn't mean they can't be a bully ,actually their sociability often help them being accomplices of the leader of the bullies.But their parents usually would do a lot of things to help them avoid bullies ,usually is using money to helping them go to good school/good environment without bullies.






You can notice these insecure attachment features often repeat occur in a same person ,if someone have a ugly outward appearance,that person is more likely to being a feminist/furry/anime fan.For example:







So you are dislike those groups now?That's why you are nefarious(=human for me).

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